Shut down connshare upstream along with the SSH connection.

Shut down connshare upstream along with the SSH connection.

This ought to happen in ssh_do_close alongside the code that shuts
down other local listening things like port forwardings, for the same
obvious reason. In particular, we should get through this _before_ we
put up a modal dialog box telling the user what just went wrong with
the SSH connection, so that further sessions started while that box is
active don't try futilely to connect to the not-really-listening
zombie upstream.