mm/hmm: fix use after free with struct hmm in the mmu notifiers
mmu_notifier_unregister_no_release() is not a fence and the mmu_notifier
system will continue to reference hmm->mn until the srcu grace period
expires.
Use SRCU to kfree the hmm memory so that the notifiers can rely on hmm
existing. Get the now-safe hmm struct through container_of and directly
check kref_get_unless_zero to lock it against free.
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@mellanox.com> Reviewed-by: Ira Weiny <ira.weiny@intel.com> Reviewed-by: John Hubbard <jhubbard@nvidia.com> Reviewed-by: Ralph Campbell <rcampbell@nvidia.com> Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de> Tested-by: Philip Yang <Philip.Yang@amd.com>