i40iw: Fix the connection ORD value for loopback

i40iw: Fix the connection ORD value for loopback

The accepting QP ORD value should be adjusted not to
exceed the peer QP IRD value (RFC 6581). This is
skipped for loopback. After the ORD is validated
by i40iw_record_ird_ord(), adjust the ORD value of
the loopback accepting QP to prevent overrunning the
IRD space of the peer QP. Also move the ORD accounting
for 0-byte RDMA read to i40iw_record_ird_ord().

Fixes: f27b4746f378 ("i40iw: add connection management code")
Signed-off-by: Tatyana Nikolova <tatyana.e.nikolova@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Shiraz Saleem <shiraz.saleem@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@mellanox.com>