Reorganise the logging and display of messages about SSH

Reorganise the logging and display of messages about SSH
authentication. We should now produce an Event Log entry for every
authentication attempted and every authentication failure; meanwhile,
messages in the PuTTY window will not be generated for the failure of
auth types unless we also announced in the PuTTY window that we were
trying them. (GSSAPI was getting the latter wrong, leading to spurious
'Access denied' for many users of 0.61.)

[originally from svn r9226]